- Eva Mendes gets real about parenting struggles
- She makes tearful revelation about family life with Ryan Gosling
- The actress aims to keep it real as a mother to their two daughters
In the world of celebrity glitz, where the spotlight often overshadows reality, Eva Mendes dares to bare the raw and real side of motherhood. The Hollywood actress, known for her roles both on and off the screen, recently took to Dr. Shefali's podcast, 'Parenting & You,' to discuss the "hardest patterns" she's working to break as a mother to daughters Esmeralda and Amada.
Breaking the cycle
"It's the yelling," Mendes confessed, her voice laced with emotion. "I don’t yell when they need me... It's not a 'mean' yell, but it doesn’t matter. I yell." This admission struck a chord, revealing a side of Mendes that fans rarely see. The actress, raised in a Cuban household filled with love yet shadowed by fear, is determined to pave a different path for her daughters.
Mendes, who shares her life and children with Ryan Gosling, has always been private about her family life. Yet, when it comes to parenting, she's an open book, hoping her honesty can help others. "I hope I don’t look back in 20 years and go 'oh shoot,'" she shared tearfully, emphasizing her wish to raise her children without fear.
From chaos to calm
Reflecting on her upbringing, Mendes noted, "My household when I was little was very chaotic, a lot of screaming, a lot of anxiety." It's a cycle she's determined not to repeat. Despite the pressures and challenges, Mendes and Gosling have chosen to keep their children out of the spotlight, focusing on providing a stable, loving environment.
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For Mendes, stepping away from Hollywood to focus on her family was "The easiest decision I've ever made." Now in her 50s, she feels more equipped to handle the demands of motherhood, embracing the lessons and love she's received and passing them on to her children in a healthier, more positive way.
